This 'Success' Formula is Sweet, Simple and Designed for Personal Evolution!

As mentioned in my previous blog a simple formula exists to help you create and live the life you want. This framework is very simple in its structure but very flexible as it allows you to use it as many times as you want and in as many ways you deem appropriate.

What I am simply identifying is the 'path' or 'direction' that most people need to pass through in order to be successful. Some people are already working in and developing some parts of the formula so dont need to follow through all the elements in order, while some pretty much know what to do but just need a structure to comfort them that they are on the right path.

Regardless of where you are I am not trying to dictate that one simple formula I have put on this page is the answer to all your issues and the key to your future. I am simply providing a thought provoking formula that will get your mind and emotions in full gear and ready to focus on what you need to do. if the formula is perfect for you or even if it isnt and may seem like a waste of your time, my goal is to get you thinking and motivated to achieve what you want by tackling the issues most uf us face. Clarity is sometimes all we need.

The formula once again is:      D + E + F= SA         

                                             Defeat + Embrace + Fulfill= Self Actualization Progression

Defeat Fear and Mental Barriers:   The first element in the formula, and for many the first step necessary to ignite the path to achieving the life we want is the acknowledging, understanding and conquering of the mental barriers and 'life' barriers that are stopping you from developing and enjoying the life you want. These barriers for our purposes are generally mental and physical barriers created by Fear, Anxiety, Stress and Depression and are related to our expectations and relationships with Religion, Money, Family, Social Relationships, Peers, Colleagues, Spirituality, Education, and Beliefs to name a few. So, in order for us to achieve in our life we need to know WHAT it is WE WANT and exactly the barriers, obstacles and challenges WE NEED to overcome.

Embrace Potential and Change:  The second step and element is crucial to precipitating action and involves actively embracing the idea that you actually have to change or even improve as a person to reach your goals. Sounds simple but so many of us dont like the idea of change and dont know where to start once we identify change as necessary. Changing how you live, breathe and react to the world around you by 'Living In The Now', practicing and embracing change by challenging your own ideals and belief systems and striving for and evolving mental and intellectual preparation and enhancement are key goals and actions necessary to prepare you to reach your goals.

Do you believe you are good enough to actually be successful? Do you feel guilty about moving forward? Would reaching your goals be a detachment from a parent's value system and uspet them? Having the skills is one thing and necessary, but is no good without the belief. It is at this stage we embrace and prepare our Attitude and arm ourselves with Intelligence, Love, Personal Power, Courage, Support, Reputation, Truth and Positive Energy from the Universe to reach our goals.

Fulfill Life:  The final step in the formula is to put in motion the plan you have to live the life you want and fulfill your destiny,or at least get the ball rolling that way. It is at this stage that we execute what we want to do and just go for it. This is the stage most people jump to when they want to change or improve their current life and situation but taking care of business in the previous first 2 steps in the formula gives you a greater chance for success. Whether it is Starting your Own Business, Going to University, Travelling the World, Starting a Family, Starting a Relationship, Building a Career, Building a Healthier Body and Mind or completely changing your Life Goal, Life Purpose or Lifestyle, it is at this stage we take on WHAT to do, HOW to do it and everything crucial to meeting your goals.

As you can plainly see, the formula is simple, flexible and adaptable to almost any situation in your life. This framework puts everything in a nice 'checks and balances' format that allows you to think hard about what you need to do, when and how to achieve it. Anxious Candy, myself and all our blogs and articles will tackle and evolve every element in this formula and we hope that in any way it helps improve your life.